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Sunday, June 9, 2013

Walsh and Smalley Marriage Metaphor


The Dance by Dan Walsh and Gary Smalley

Marilyn Anderson has had enough.  She packs a few belongings, leaves a note where her husband  Jim will find it and leaves him after 25 years.  He has hurt her deeply, beginning at their wedding reception when he refused to dance with her.  And the hurts have continued for years as he has ignored her and treated her more like property than a person.  She doesn’t know what the future holds for her and Jim—or whether they will have a future together.  But she knows that she can’t continue to live with her harsh and selfish husband.  Jim is shocked and clueless as to why she would leave him.  Slowly he comes to understand what she has felt for years.  As he begins to change, including learning to dance, he can only hope and pray that Marilyn may change her mind and return to him.

Walsh and Smalley write a true-to-life tale of the problems many married couples face.  They use dancing as a metaphor for a couple’s relationship.  Along the way, they sprinkle to storyline with wise bits of advice and sage pieces of healthy relationship principles.  Although I had a general feel for where the story was going, the twists and turns kept me reading it.  This story should give hope to those in a stale or difficult marriage relationship, as was the authors’ purpose in writing it.  Some readers may find it easier to read and more enjoyable than a “marriage manual.” Either way, it is a book worth reading.  I received a free copy from the publisher and this is my honest review.

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